If my mother had done this, if my father had been this, if my boss didn't do this.I so wish some of these people would get the clue that they have something to do with it. Especially when they find themselves in similar situations time and time again.
Happiness and suffering come from your own mind, not from outside. Your own mind is the cause of happiness; your own mind is the cause of suffering. To obtain happiness and pacify suffering, you have to work within your own mind.Lama Zopa Rinpoche, "The Door To Satisfaction"