Eight Buddhist Principles for Relationship

Because love is other-concerned, has no hierarchy, and does not cherish self-vindication, these teachings may be used as wise guides for intimate relating.

• May I consider all beings precious.
• May I always respect others as superior while attaining self-esteem.
• May I face my inner darkness and turn it to good.
• May I be moved with compassion for the pain behind the spite others may show me.
• When I am hurt by others, may I forego retaliation while always fighting injustice.
• May I reckon those who betray me as sacred teachers.
• May I offer joy to all beings and secretly take on their suffering.
• May all beings and I be free from ego concerns of loss and gain.

Adapted from How to Be an Adult in Relationships by David Richo